Selena Gomez sings of psychological well being struggles — and therapeutic

Wanna hear a part to my story I tried to hide in the glory / And sweep it under the table, so you would never know?”

The fragile inner rhyme in Selena Gomez‘s “My Mind & Me” ironically suits a song about profound inner discord. The Oscar-shortlisted confessional captures the essence of the Apple TV+ documentary about the singer-actor-producer, “Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me”.

The film starts as a behind-the-curtain glimpse at a pop superstar as she promotes her new album. Then, chaos strikes, and it becomes something very different: An unguarded look at the mental-health struggles of a young woman seemingly on top of the world. The song rises to what could very well be Gomez’s inventive zenith.

“We were originally just wanting to do a tour documentary, which meant, you know, pretty dresses and dancing and singing and having a great time. That’s just not where I was mentally,” Gomez says. “I was really confused then. I was really struggling to just get it together.”

Gomez, 30, has already had a public battle with lupus, requiring a kidney transplant. Then got here what she calls the “psychotic break” that compelled her to cancel the remainder of her tour. She sought remedy and acquired a behavioral-health analysis: bipolar dysfunction, nervousness and despair.

“But if I pull back the curtain, then maybe someone who’s hurtin’ / Will be a little more certain, they’re not the only one lost”

“I don’t wish it on anyone,” Gomez says, “but the psychotic break — as much as it was painful, actually led me to discovering my diagnosis. I sought help. I believe in medication. It has completely changed my life. That hopefully was part of the message in talking about my story: ‘You should never stop figuring out who you are,’” she says. “I just hope that people [who are suffering] know they’re not alone.

“I think now I’m at the place where I wear it proudly, and I’m not ashamed, and I wanna continue to be honest with my journey, because I feel like I don’t have anything to hide.”

The documentary “Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me” exhibits mental-health struggles can afflict anybody. The movie’s title monitor, co-written by Gomez, is shortlisted for the 2023 Oscar.

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A part of that outlook entails penning a track she acknowledges to be her most private since her triple-platinum hit “Lose You to Love Me,” about her painful breakup with Justin Bieber. This one would go into uncharted waters for a performer who has been within the public eye since she was 10, with greater than 350 million Instagram followers (making her the world’s most-followed entertainer, based on Brandwatch) and a spot amongst Time journal’s 100 most influential folks in 2020.

This track would go deeper into who she actually is.

“I had sent a few pages of my diary to Stefan and Amy and the gang,” she says of co-writers Amy Allen, Jonathan Bellion, Michael Pollack, Stefan Johnson, Jordan Okay. Johnson and the manufacturing staff referred to as the Monsters & Strangerz. “They were super-grateful that I was sharing my heart, because it was different than anything I had ever done.

“When we got in the room, it was effortless. It was like a therapy session. Some of the words were verbatim, some of the things I was talking to myself about.”

You could be round all the very best folks and really feel nothing. And that’s the loneliest place to be.

— Selena Gomez

The primary notes are alone on a piano, virtually like a music field. The verses are sung at about double the tempo of the choruses, however with one thing within the vocal coloured by hassle, exhaustion. Collectively they recommend the ballerina figurine that pops up when that music field opens, spinning and spinning and nobody understanding how she feels about it.

The second stanza’s metaphor — as poetic as it’s — scratches the floor of a secondary, even deeper which means:

“Sometimes I feel like an accident, people look when they’re passin’ and / Never check on the passenger, they just want the free show,” Gomez quotes her track and says the road got here from a dialog with a good friend. In that discuss, she described how she was feeling as: “I was driving a truck and I was just going; all this stuff was in the truck, in the back, and I was going a hundred miles an hour, and then I stop. And all of that stuff just hits me at once.”

Out of that delicately manic lyric, the melody slows, legato: “Yeah, I’m constantly / tryna fight somethin’ that my eyes can’t see …”

These strains are produced with echo, inserting her farther away than earlier than, in one other place, virtually as a unique particular person — or at the very least a unique a part of an individual. It’s a forsaken sound.

Then, the vocal is up entrance and current, backed by a bass and a strumming acoustic guitar — and subtly syncopated, so the ideas are simply barely off the beat:

“My mind and me / we don’t get along sometimes / And it gets hard to breathe / but I wouldn’t change my life”

Because the melody climbs to the next pitch, her voice turns into as plaintive because it’s ever been: “And all of the crashin’ and burnin’ and breakin’, I know now / If somebody sees me like this, then they won’t feel alone now”

… earlier than returning to the solitude of the melody’s touchdown spot, her easy supply and people solitary piano notes: ”… My thoughts and me.”

A woman with her face in shadow sings onstage in "Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me."

Even beneath the highlight, you could be in shadow. “Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me” explores the darkish aspect of being Selena Gomez.

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Although there’s an instrumental construct — maybe much less a “build” than a “filling up” — within the choruses (together with some ghostly, wordless vocal touches again within the combine), the track by no means overpowers. It’s a bit just like the confusion of a room of mirrors, then trying as much as see sky.

“Hopefully, it’s one of those songs you feel a release listening to or singing in the car, or just listening to on headphones when you’re just sitting there with yourself,” Gomez says. “I wanted it to feel quiet but powerful.”

“If somebody sees me like this, I hope they feel less alone now; that’s the whole essence,” says Gomez. “I just want it to be real. There is nothing lonelier than being so confused and hard on yourself. You can be around all the best people and feel nothing. And that’s the loneliest place to be.”

I might a lot reasonably discuss what’s occurring in our actual lives than fake to be comfortable.

— Selena Gomez

She says the documentary has enabled her to have “such real conversations with people. I don’t feel like an entity. I don’t feel like people are just, ‘Can I take a picture?’ It’s more, ‘I wanna talk to you about that …’ It started to make me feel like a real person.

“The biggest gift of all of it was that it allowed other people to share their struggles with me. I feel like that’s so important and I would much rather talk about what’s going on in our real lives than pretend to be happy.”

She is aware of that she’s not out of the woods and that she could by no means be — she confesses to usually having “these thoughts and these visions of things going wrong … it can be things that are really hurtful, or it can be the dumbest thing.

“My mind is a force of its own. And I love who I am, and I love how my mind works, because it is who I am. But I am so grateful that I now have a better relationship with it.”